tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post3425259477684020577..comments2024-03-10T00:38:42.248+11:00Comments on CopperWitch: CRAPJahTehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02007730071564639411noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-77012842107107770682007-06-23T10:08:00.000+10:002007-06-23T10:08:00.000+10:00Oh! I am so terribly sorry for you. How much worse...Oh! I am so terribly sorry for you. How much worse it is for it to be like this? Although my Don has experinced all the tortures modern medical system (if it can be called that) can inflict...he remained himself, full of love and humour (be it black at times) and a sad acceptance. All he left behind was sweet and good...and in that I am lucky, although the grief is awful.<BR/><BR/>But for you to be living like this, and to be rightfully feeling like you do ...what can I say to make it feel better? It will end one day, and when it does, do not allow yourself one moment of anything negative. You have done beyond your best and somewhere the balance will be struck. Your mum when she dies (and I believe this) will know truth. Not the surface truth of how you feel because of what is happening, but that deep deep inside yourself you had the sense of compassion to hang in there no matter that you had the right to walk away at any time.<BR/><BR/>For now I just hope today is a good day, and the same tomorrow. and that finally your mum will say to herself "I am dying" and go sweetly... leaving you with something you are not expecting. I may be silly but I hope this happens. If not...you have done the best any daughter could ever do...and your soul will shine because of it. Even if right now it all feels a bit tarnishedMiddle Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09962830669606760640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-90373523096988955082007-06-16T15:06:00.000+10:002007-06-16T15:06:00.000+10:00Andrew, as Steph reported Hunii died from lung can...Andrew, as Steph reported Hunii died from lung cancer and she was young. Audreyandthebadapples lost her mother to stomach cancer but A is only midtwenties. Middlechild who you know has lost Don and she's my age. So death doesn't care about age. Even when my mother does go, I'm going to have to get an exorcist in to make sure.<BR/><BR/>*hugs* back OoC, you're having your own problems. Get yourself down to Chinatown and look into some FengShui for your career. We'll deal with the love life when you're rich.JahTehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007730071564639411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-50723493352473231032007-06-15T23:03:00.000+10:002007-06-15T23:03:00.000+10:00*hugs*I can only imagine how difficult all this mu...*hugs*<BR/><BR/>I can only imagine how difficult all this must be. I'm sure that you're already doing the best you can, so don't be too hard on yourself. My thoughts are with you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-36764946970918188422007-06-15T21:29:00.000+10:002007-06-15T21:29:00.000+10:00Like I have seen wives or husbands partners with (...Like I have seen wives or husbands partners with (can't spell it) old peoples brain disease. By the time the person dies, it is only a relief. The grieving has already been done over a long period because the person they knew has disappeared. I hope you will be able to remember more positive things about your mother in time to come. <BR/><BR/>Blogging has really come of age when bloggers start to die and other bloggers report on it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com