tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post8128540627452406419..comments2024-03-10T00:38:42.248+11:00Comments on CopperWitch: It's a quarter to three and no-one's in the place except you and meJahTehhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02007730071564639411noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-72681908767862340582019-06-27T20:16:34.774+10:002019-06-27T20:16:34.774+10:00I haven't seen mine since 2014. I don't mi...I haven't seen mine since 2014. I don't miss her. I hope if you miss your's then not too much. I find the dead, (and the absent from our lives) are much better behaved and they are 'there' when we want them to be, when we think of them. (not very often in my case).<br /><br />You are a better daughter than I; mine is in a nursing home, my sister visits fortnightly and rings her every friggin day. WT?? Apparently she broke her hip a couple of months ago. <br /><br />I think our feelings of indifference towards one another are pretty mutual and always have been. On reflection, I wonder whether I'll make it her funeral, when the time comes. Maybe it will be worth it to look daggers at the BIL and meet my nephew for the third time. He's 19 now and looks quite a bit like me, poor sod. My sister would hate that. LOL All the best to you. JahTeh.xxLinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12346948772651971988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-61526568975322677722019-03-02T15:13:32.311+11:002019-03-02T15:13:32.311+11:00Well whaddayaknow! It worked :DWell whaddayaknow! It worked :DHelen Balconyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01166756364431205849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-27820150485910744152019-03-02T15:13:05.611+11:002019-03-02T15:13:05.611+11:00Hi Witchy, I've been reading your blog off and...Hi Witchy, I've been reading your blog off and on and trying to leave a comment to say hi but have had problems with the Blogger comments and how the blog's configured. Here goes with another try.<br />I hadn't read about your mum's death, so, all love to you for that difficult time and agree that her passing was not sad but an end to a long struggle.<br />In October 17 the struggle began with my mum having a serious stroke. Now my life is like yours, to and fro from the care home, although I'm not as good as you were because of work, but luckily there are others to share visits.<br />She wanted to go before she had the stroke, now she's incapacitated, refusing food and as daft as they come, but she could live like this for years.<br />I hope that you now have the time and space to blossom and do things for yourself rather than always for others. Love, Helen BalconyHelen Balconyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01166756364431205849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-6024896931813848152019-01-02T16:50:18.069+11:002019-01-02T16:50:18.069+11:00Sami, Up to two months ago she was still making a ...Sami, Up to two months ago she was still making a few cards then she just stopped. She was ready to go, it just took longer than she thought and more uncomfortable.<br /><br />Annie O, it's still going on. I haven't been dressed since the funeral and I was going to make the roses into bunches and take them to the cemetary but I suddenly hit a brick wall. Didn't want to eat, hated the expensive chocolates, the possums are enjoying the fruit cake and the stupid Bear nearly had a heart attack on NYE when he went out just before the fireworks, that'll learn him to come in when I say so.JahTehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007730071564639411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-45457621713822932792018-12-31T00:43:16.601+11:002018-12-31T00:43:16.601+11:00My sincere condolence dear Coppy.
You were wonderf...My sincere condolence dear Coppy.<br />You were wonderful for every minute of the last decade and deserve a massive renewal in 2019.Ann ODynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01159263330547329077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-12553177143045619142018-12-30T02:28:50.017+11:002018-12-30T02:28:50.017+11:00Came over from Andrew's blog. My condolences o...Came over from Andrew's blog. My condolences on the loss of your Mother.Samihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06467163627586022816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-27730592113945970512018-12-26T17:34:37.355+11:002018-12-26T17:34:37.355+11:00I built book shelves to ceiling height in Newport,...I built book shelves to ceiling height in Newport, that's why I had the ladder. Never underestimate the money hunger of the latte set. it's hammered into them as children.<br /><br />Municipal councils and shires tore down wrought iron when they demolished shop verandas, especially in country towns. What idiots. The current prime minister has the perfect appearance of a country town mayor. I don't think he'll last long.<br /><br />I don't know what you mean about adopting me, but you are free to use anything I've put on your blog, I owe you that as a minimum. Your own writing has a subtle wit, consistent and rock solid. I don't know if it comes easy to you. I suspect it does.<br /><br />Thanks. <br /><br />R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-76814534000483945192018-12-26T12:38:19.381+11:002018-12-26T12:38:19.381+11:00Beth, Mum's twin sister has outdone my sister ...Beth, Mum's twin sister has outdone my sister by ringing Christmas morning and demanding that her eulogy be read out. I've been in touch with the celebrant and said to dump the whole lot or pick one and only one sentence. Everything is timed so it all runs smoothly but would she believe me, no so watch out for a mushroom cloud over Melbourne. JahTehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007730071564639411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-8172824132026307872018-12-26T01:30:20.655+11:002018-12-26T01:30:20.655+11:00Dear JahTeh...I've been searching for the word...Dear JahTeh...I've been searching for the words but all that comes out is "Dear God, have mercy on us all." My mother and father took too many years to die. I'm familiar with the journey your mum just completed. And, yes, because of this I've got my "final arrangements" finalized. Wise advice.<br /><br />I do not discount anyone's account of "odd occurences" following a death. Too many sane and usually sober friends have reported them. Nor am I surprised by the outrageous and unhelpful remarks and behavior of relatives -- but your sister has outdone herself. Again, "God, have mercy on us all."Beth Waltzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02720634636307254576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-73810540073457491252018-12-22T11:30:56.669+11:002018-12-22T11:30:56.669+11:00Robbert, I would have loved that ladder considerin...Robbert, I would have loved that ladder considering my books are up to the ceiling.<br />The Celebrant said my family was crazy and I should write a book about them which means I'd have to adopt you unless you are writing your own book. So many blogs, so many RH blog fights, all hilarious and now all we have is moronic facebook. <br />I wouldn't call myself "latte set" but if you look at my 'want' house a few posts back I would be called Gold Rush Posh. I love wrought iron lace, so did Mother and spent a fortune on it renovating the house. JahTehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007730071564639411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-36356118496820318982018-12-21T23:49:32.971+11:002018-12-21T23:49:32.971+11:00Don't be alarmed, I'm only here for Christ...Don't be alarmed, I'm only here for Christmas, and for mother. R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-12835817338330240312018-12-21T23:38:19.416+11:002018-12-21T23:38:19.416+11:00On the final inspection hubby had to skedaddle bac...On the final inspection hubby had to skedaddle back to work. So me and blondie went back inside for another looksee. I experienced the fantasy to grab her and throw her down. It was a possibility; she would have known. R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-55671896330067564582018-12-21T23:25:06.244+11:002018-12-21T23:25:06.244+11:00This comment has been removed by the author.R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-63037218501854053792018-12-21T22:50:02.097+11:002018-12-21T22:50:02.097+11:00The latte suckers who bought my joint got a rotted...The latte suckers who bought my joint got a rotted subfloor and tiles that come off the roof in the slightest breeze. What idiots. I feel a bit guilty about it but it's not my fault. They're a hypnotised group, suckered by the shyster times we live in. I mean "Lifestyle", a term created by estate agents. R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-87368890633958245212018-12-21T22:27:55.468+11:002018-12-21T22:27:55.468+11:00Willie Nelson does a good version of Always. I kno...Willie Nelson does a good version of Always. I know the words, and the words of many other songs my daddy sang, face screwed up in concentration. He actually believed he was a good singer. I'm not sorry he's gone, drunken old bastard.R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-41176109297890718092018-12-20T18:44:07.837+11:002018-12-20T18:44:07.837+11:00El Chi, it really was a blessing for her, the stru...El Chi, it really was a blessing for her, the struggle just went on and on. The funeral won't be until after Boxing Day, apparently it's a bit busy at this time of the year but I'm pleased, I need a rest.<br /><br />Thank you Cheryl G, but she's still annoying me. For days I've heard a beep beep and looked everywhere in case an animal had crawled in. I brought her mobile phone home in my bag and the battery was running low, beep beep.<br /><br />River, the cat is not talking to me because I've been gone too long. The secret ingredient was delicious, of course they didn't last until Christmas. Now they don't work with coffe, it must be tea and the cream must be thick.<br /><br />Robbert, it was awful to see her shaking with fright and struggling to breathe. She kept asking me how long did she have to wait, well I told her it was her journey and she could get off the bus anytime she liked.<br />I hope you like the music, arriving at the Chapel, Shubert Serenade, for the slide show, Kate Smith singing "I'll be loving you, always", the first song she and dad danced to and when the hearse leaves and everyone is encourage to stand outside to say goodbye, it will be Mozart's Ave Verum Corpis sung by Andrea Boccelli.<br />She'll appreciate you banging that out and on a baby grand piano bought with your million bucks.<br /><br />Andrew, you have to be careful, you're of that age now. And write out your funeral for goodness sake, what a monster of details. Even paid for, there are still costs and in the finish, I just said do the most beautiful and send an invoice. Worked out well Sister moving to Yeppoon, hard to annoy me on the phone. I'm waiting now for Mercy Health coughing up a refund since she didn't make it to the end of December.<br /><br />River, something else I did, I engaged a lady Celebrant who knew the era mum lived in.JahTehhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007730071564639411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-50629665423941708572018-12-20T01:56:12.096+11:002018-12-20T01:56:12.096+11:00I can't wish you a merry xmas, but I do for ev...I can't wish you a merry xmas, but I do for everyone else, including the latte set. <br />I'm more tolerant of them now, having sold them my house for a million bucks. R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-15669002130263097842018-12-20T01:22:23.308+11:002018-12-20T01:22:23.308+11:00I've just seen this and it gave me a shock. Sa...I've just seen this and it gave me a shock. Say what you like, I'm sorry mother is gone. She was from times more decent. Those times only exist now in places like Ballarat.<br /> <br />Never mind, I'll still be banging out tunes for her. (Late at night, of course.)<br /><br />-Robert. R.H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04639593801088008224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-33541235931386179012018-12-18T15:17:16.856+11:002018-12-18T15:17:16.856+11:00I read your title and knew right away your mum had...I read your title and knew right away your mum had died, I had to go and wash the dishes before I could read because I cried a little. it's surprising how much she managed to gather while being there, 15 pairs of scissors? I can understand the DVDs and CDs, but not the scissors. <br />I don't think putting lights on the cat is a great idea, but punching your sister, even virtually, is a good idea. <br />I hope you remember where you stashed the pies, I did something a little different this year, added cinnamon to the pastry, let me know if they're okay like that. <br />Doc Marvin deserves a Christmas gift for all the help and care he gave. Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794655013673748992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-54293033541018927002018-12-18T11:49:38.367+11:002018-12-18T11:49:38.367+11:00Thanks to your and Doc Marvin's care, and mayb...Thanks to your and Doc Marvin's care, and maybe some staff, she did pretty well. It has been a shocker of a year for deaths for us and although we didn't meet your mum, I feel like I knew her a little. Our sincere condolences. XXAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-54905882092733904442018-12-17T19:46:09.517+11:002018-12-17T19:46:09.517+11:00A blessing for your beloved Mum.
You are in my th...A blessing for your beloved Mum. <br />You are in my thoughts today. <br />Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05345889650251245750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17391176.post-373221739457481152018-12-17T19:37:04.617+11:002018-12-17T19:37:04.617+11:00I am glad her struggle is over.
And thinking of yo...I am glad her struggle is over.<br />And thinking of you.Elephant's Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650565833097914052noreply@blogger.com